First the good news... Friend (Sofi) gave me the enthusiasm to get up and attempt to get "Trillian Astra".. I signed up for it a long time ago and never got an e-mail from em.. I tried again today and I got a reply this time (Though it was in my Junk folder.. I rarely check it so I'm guessing that's where the first reply went to.) And I got it downloaded and installed! It looks sweet and I LOVE the colors! Though my smiley's are gone. -.- Well, at least not put into the Trillian Astra yet.
Also, a tower is done in my area! Finally 100% switched over from Cell One to AT&T... For those that don't know, we had Cell One all throughout this area, but then the company was bought by AT&T... However, the towers were not completely compatible, so they have to work on the Cell One signal towers and switch them over. Well, one of the many towers around here is completely switched over, and I am able to expierience 3G... it's a bit weak since it isn't the closest tower, but I definately see a difference. ^.^ The other towers are still being worked on, so there's a chance, even if I have my air-card to pick up ONLY 3G signal, that a tower may be switching back and forth while being worked on, so I may still be randomly d/ced until all the towers in my area are done. -.- But it's still nice to know they are making progress. =P
NOW FOR THE BAD NEWS...
For those that don't know... My dad's a manwhore... (To clarify, my definition of a manwhore is any guy who doesn't treat a girl right. The only reason they'd stay in a relationship at all would be for the sex/physical pleasure.) He's cheated on my mom multiples times throughout their relationship/marriage. 6 or 7 if I remember correctly. The latest was with my mom's step-sister, and once that was done and over with, he said he was done and that it was a mistake... We found out a month ago that he's been talking to the step-sister all this time behind my mom's back, including sending texts such as "I'll be done early tonight, are you free?"
My mom has tried and tried to make things work, has forgiven him multiple times, but she's had it and I don't blame her. She's talking with a new guy a couple hours away and dad now knows about it. Though he's pulling all this drama, sympathy routine's, "good guy" image, Mom and I both know it's just an act. IF my mom were to forgive him, as soon as things got comfortable, he'd get bored and do something stupid again anyways... We are unsure who is keeping the house, how we'll split bills, ect. Dad's both trying to fix things and get it over with as fast as possible. (Yeah, he's being insane like that.)
So, lots of parents talking/fighting, as well as hearing Dad rant and talk to me, and Mom and I trying to make plans and figure things out (Because I'm definately on her side.) so things are kind of stressful here. I do feel sorry for my mom.. My mom and dad are high-school sweet-hearts.. My dad has been the only guy my mom has ever even dated... Though he's put her through hell and she's finally done with it, it's hard to see her in such pain.. Having to push away and say goodbye to the guy she's loved and been with her entire life... =/
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I'm sorry :( I know you tell me that you're here when I need to talk but I hope you know it works the other way too :) That's a really shitty situation but at least your mom is getting away from your dad...that's good right?
ReplyDeleteAwws.. Thanks.. But even if I'm able to rant/vent, I'm not sure I'd take you up on that offer.. I'd feel selfish, and like I was using you.. Just not my style lol.
ReplyDeleteAnd yeah, it is a crappy situation all the way around, for everyone.. But when it's all said and done, we'll be better off.. But until then.. The drama is only going to get increasingly worse. -.-